hey friends !!

I won't b able to update my blog for few days...As I will be occupied with cousin marriage !! I love each and every small function, music, dhol wale :P, mehandi... sangeet!! Each and everything and enjoy a lot :)

Yeah but I hate aunts who come and just try to show their heavy status By their heavy gold jewel lay, saris etc and always trying to fix Gals n guys, who are "Ripe marriage prospect" (according to them :P).!!

Anyway it’s really fun as again I will get chance to be with my family :)

but the cruel fact is :

" my lappy is not invited there" .. as mom asked either I should pick her or lappy And off course I will go with mom (as second option does not exist seriously)

I will miss you my sweet lappy :(

Orkut, facebook, blogs, twiter.n so on.... my entire virtual world :(

So frnds u all enjoy I will back soon with new post (after 9th June :D ) !!

Keep rocking!! Keep blogging!! Keep smiling :) :)

why??

why always before getting a loan first we need to prove we don't need it at all?

I can never find determine which side of the bread to butter, but if it falls down
, it always land on the buttered side..

why mom's first choice is "no" while replying to any of my question .

As soon we mention something?? if confused with good or bad... bad happens :(

If you are early, the bus is late.. if you are late the bus is still late :P

whenever we are in a queue, the other line always moves faster..

If we bunked the class , the professor has taken attendance..

why we pick up max wrong no while in roaming ??

The door bell and mobile.. always ring when we are in bathroom ??

If you are having exams tomorrow , there will be power cut tonight !

Irrespective of the direction of the wind, the smoke from the cigarette always tend to go to the non-smoker

once we have bought something , find the same item being sold somewhere else at a cheaper rate.. !!!!

Just a thought # 4 !!

It's sad to think you'll never be mine,
it's even sadder to realize I knew it all the time !!!!

When belief dies !!

Believe :to have confidence in the truth, the existence, or the reliability of something, although without absolute proof that one is right in doing so..
Thats the meaning isin't??

The most common question asked by a guy to gal is: "don't u trust me?? followed by"how much ". all do gals answer is "ya i do trust you.. more then myself (if gal is in relationship with the guy). but sometimes this trust is the cause of death of the girl..

I don't know when they will understand..This life is no longer a fairy tale where their is a prince a princess a fairy land n blah blah..but now their prince can be the worst guy they had ever met :(
its sad but true ..its now the damn reality of the world
"young girls being exploited by their male friends".

The girls are asked to be careful while being in relationship with guy..
but the question is: careful from whom?
strangers?? friends?? boyfriend?? lover??
or from everyone whom they trust?? whom they know??

A number of girls, committing suicide or attempting to end their lives after being ''blackmailed'' by their boyfriends.The boyfriends which once promised to stay with her whole life, to care for her, whom she believed a lot more then anyone else in this world..

There are few cases where belief dies followed by the girl.... when being cheated..

A 22-year-old girl committed suicide last year in Cuttack after she found her objectionable pictures in a CD allegedly made by her male friend.
He was later arrested by police. but till then it was too late she lost her b'ful life
just for a guy who doenst deserve her love, trust or anything..

Three more girls fell victim to pornographic CD racket in Dhenkanal district
last month.

A girl in Dhenkanal recently attempted suicide after finding her objectionable
pictures in a CD available in the local market, she said. In a message to parents

n all the cases, the boys were in "relationship" with the girls.

The feelings, belief, trust, love , care all these things
take back seat for someone who is madly in love with "money"..n they can't love anyone else !!

True love never have ending !!!

He saw her on a party.. She was so outstanding, many guys chasing after her, while he was so normal, nobody paid attention to him.
He was staring at her,but didn't got the guts to go and talk ..
He tried once or twice but failed to drag her attention so he was sitting sad till he saw her approaching towards him
Hey hii - she greeted
Hello- he replied.. he was just feeling if his wish was coming true.
after some conversation he invited her to have coffee with him..
she was surprised but due to being polite, she promised " i will.. but just one coffee.. ok?? he agreed
They were on 1st date (n last as she promised for only one coffee)
he was too nervous to say anything,even she was feeling uncomfortable so after a little conversation she asked " hey i am sorry but let me go home now its too late".
suddenly he asked the waiter : "would you please give me some salt? I'd like to put it in my coffee."
what?? she was so much surprised now , everyone stared at him it was so strange..
His face was red, still he put the salt in the coffee and drunk it..
She asked him curiously; do you have hobby about this??
he replied : no its my necessity now,"when I was a little boy, I was living near the sea, I love playing in the sea, I could feel the taste of the sea, just like the taste of the salty coffee. Now every time I have the salty coffee, I always think of my childhood, think of my hometown, I miss my hometown so much, I miss my parents who are still living there".
a tear rolled down on his cheeks..
she was deeply touched by his true feelings, a guy who was innocent enough to spill out his homesickness,must loves his home, cares about it, his responsblities of home.
So now she started talking about her family, her childhood memories,hometown n blah blah..
they had really a nice talk,as well begining of their story ..they now coninued to date, every time she meets him she found as he was the guy of her dreams who meets her all demands, he was having tolerance, kind hearted, cool, careful and almost everything which makes a guy perfect to be someone dream lover..
she was so thankful to his salty coffee..
Then the story was just like every beautiful love story , the princess
married to the prince, then they were living the happy life...
every time she make coffee, she put some salt in it, as she knew that's the way he like his coffee..

After some years he passed away in an accident..
one day while arranging his self she got his diary..
turned the pages..
after some daily entries she found one page
"hey honey.. i am sorry please forgive me, forgive my whole life lie. This was the only lie I said to you---the salty coffee. Remember the first time we dated? I was so nervous at that time, actually I wanted some sugar, but I said salt. It was hard for me to change so I just went ahead.I never thought that could be the start of our communication! I tried to tell you the truth many timee in my life, but I was too afraid to do that, as I have promised not to lie to you for anything.. i don't know whether i will be ever able to let you know about this but i wish if i could tell you that I don't like the salty coffee, what a strange bad taste..but i can have the same salty coffee for my whole life Having you with me is my biggest happiness for my whole life. If I can live for the second time, still want to know you and have you for my whole life,even though I have to drink the salty coffee again love you lots.."

Her tears made the page totally wet.
Someday, someone asked her: what's
the taste of salty coffee?
" It's sweet... " She replied n continued to drink coffee with salt throughout her life..


p.s i heard this story by one of my friend n loved it a lot so i m narrating it again here.. hope u will like it :)

just a thought # 3

don't you ever say we aren’t right for each other,
the way I see it....

"we are not right for anybody else..."

my first award :D :D

I received this award from my blogger-friend Riya ..... thanks dear :)



Rule 1: I need to reveal 5 things i love to do
Rule 2: Pass onto 10 blogger friends.


oops its really so difficult for making it 5 becoz i love to do so many things :P

1 i love to talk, talk n talk..endless takings, although sometimes about silly or even stupid things :P
2 i love to help others in any manner.. if i am able to do so :).
3. i love to be at home with my family
4. i love to paint..
5 i love chatting with friends or sometimes even with strengers depends on mood :D


i lyk to pass this award to my blogger friends :

Suree
Madhu
Jerlin
Saurav
Romeo
Dr.chandana
Bibhash
urvashi
Abhi
Louise

congrats frnz.. keep smiling :) :)

love u mom :)

maa..
i admire and adore you..
as you are simply the best
my aim has always been
to fullfill your dreams
my efforts have always
been towards living up
to your expectation

i know i have failed sometimes
but thanks for loving me even then..

thanx a lot ....

p.s well i wont try to define maa it will take more den 10000+ posts yet it will not be completed so just few lines fr her :)

before sadness fills ur heart n u forgot to laugh !!

Did you ever saw some people laughing about nothing in the park? or anywhere?
I always wonder why they pretend to be so happy if they r nt. why they prefer this artificial laugh over natural one..
just becoz they don't have time for natural one or wat??i really feel about their sadness which filled their heart so completely so that
they have to go for exersises like this..but they are helpless as
"One day a guy saw his wife washing cloths by hand he felt bad about it
and to save her 1/2 hour, next day bought a washing machine which didn't come alone
but with EMI schemes.. resulting in few more hours at office doing overtime for them,
few days later they planned to buy a new flat screen tv
ohh it wsnt dat much tough to afford for them so again one more EmI
n few more hours overtime..some things changed acc to time some acc to need but some just becoz their neighbours have it.
everytime the same story new things resulting burden of new EMI schemes!!
Sometimes they regrate about their child that they were nt able to
give enough time. He seems so dull nowdays neither shows intrest in playing or anything.
so they come up with lots of toys, chocklates n more to cheer him up which resulting in increasing demand day by day from the child.
they looks so perfect having a big flat, a big car then others. and they look so happy family from outside."


few years rolled down and they missed a real life somewhere...

FORGET TO SMILE??
ohh They have to gO park EVERYDAY where many like them are
laughing at loud just about nothing but its the requirement of life(mgt be fake still its required) n to relax themselves so
they are laughing, no happiness is inside them, rather havin a hollow heart inside which don't care about anyone.
did nt even remember when last time they smiled form heart, saw the moon, the b'ful stars
as they are unable to see frm their balcony,
want to spend time with family but they cant why??
u forget abt d hunger of more and more luxery which comes from money and to fullfill all dreams more and more hours overtime done at office
they do'nt have time to be happy, at home they will again be sad by seeing some old furnitures
and start planning to change it as soon as possible.. so people run after artificial happiness but don't try to get the true meaning of happiness
which can't be buy from money..


Thank god i still remember how to smile or even laugh not at nothing but for many things :)
:D