It’s one of the toughest thing to do, to move away from a relationship which wasn’t even working. It takes lots of time to believe that yeah I was cheated by him/her, we keep on cursing, hating everything around us which remind us about them...but we can't do anything except "accepting it" !!
· ## Accept that there's nothing we can do to change the past : how hard we try, whatever we do, we can’t change the past doesn’t matter we were so good, loving, caring .
· ## Learn to forgive yourself for your own mistakes: we always keep cursing ourselves for something we did, for some we didn’t . Learn to forgive your mistakes as now nothing can be done !!
· ## Be aware of your thoughts : just sit and think once it’s really only you who got hurt? Because the person next to you might be going through the same pain.
· ## Trust the nature of time : time is great healer, it always heal our pain . Just have some patience you will be healed n move on !!
· ## Never be late in saying sorry : ya a sorry don’t heal someone’s pain but can comfort and just give satisfaction to you and you might forgive yourself . Apologize and ask forgiveness if you need to.
· ## Make new connections with people.: You don't necessarily have to make a whole new set of friends; you can initiate a new type of friendship . some new relationship .
· ## Seek balance in your conversations: Let go of the emotions and feelings of painful memories. ya its fine you are so sad and low but no one wants to with someone who live in his/her own world either happy or sad, just take some interest in their lives too.
· ## Explore a new world : start something new. Paint, write, draw , read, do something which you love to do. Move out of your comfort zone.
· When you're letting go of an ex-partner, you should seriously consider whether it's wise to spend time together -- or if you should let go altogether. Maybe you're still in love, or were abused, and have confused thoughts and feelings. Take a break , ask yourself twice and then decide.
p.s keep smiling :)
