Saturday, July 24, 2010

A new world !!

She was from a small town, got admission in a college at metro city. For her it was a complete different and new culture, environment , the way of talking, dressing style everything.

on the other side she was extremely shy and simple girl so tried hard to be like people around her, but always failed to do so . because everything was different between them. One day while working in lab she was introduced to a new world : which changed her for forever.. which was so different from the world she was living from childhood.

It was “the virtual world”
After some instructions and suggestions she stepped in it, it was all new to her so she was much curious about it. At initially she had some friends over there but getting influenced by others she wanted more and more friends , she wanted to become popular in a short span of time.

Time passed, and she got much involved with all this, loved to spend whole day with chatting, social networking sites and so on as being addicted to them she couldn’t tried to imagine her life without all of them. Now she was popular, she always loved to see so many scraps and messages waiting for her, till she faced some worse situations by getting some non-sense written in them , she tried to ignore them but her every time she get them she got hurt. It was quite unexpected many thoughts like: why I am getting hurt by all those, these are cool.. people over here talk in the same manner now I am like them … was going on in her mind.

One day while chatting with a girl named siya ..
She: hi
Siya : hello :)
After some conversation she come up with :
She: why you had so few friends in your friend list? Don’t you want to be popular or don’t you want more friends?
Siya : no. I prefer being stranger for the world rather getting any cheap popularity.
Ok I am having classes so I will leave now.
Bbye and take care :)
She didn’t utter a single word just replied bye.

After siya got offline she was lying on her bed and thinking.. the girl was right? I was more happy when I was unknown, being confused with lots of questions for her own she switched the computer on , sign in to her account again and now she was so clear with the things she was going to do. She deleted some friends who were just show piece of her friend list as well some friends she didn’t liked but kept them to feel proud by having such a huge friends in the list, now was actually feeling refreshed.

Now she became much choosy with the friends and any contact made online, then realized this world was also filled with so many better people to do friendship. It took some time but now she was really blessed with some Good friends who care for her, showed believe in her for her studies, for her look, encouraged her to do something good ,for whom she was always welcomed to share anything any feeling, her happiness, sadness, some who annoy her just to cheer her up and she turned out to be a brilliant student, a nice friend all over again and above all she met with herself “who was better then so many people of the both world” and now popularity wasn’t any issue for her , she was happy in being less-popular !! everything was so perfect now her friendship, studies as well she wasn’t alone anymore and now she loved to be in this virtual world !!



“ sometimes we are unknown with our demands from the life.. we become so confused what we want and when we got results, we come up with "we never wished for this to happen" !! “







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Sunday, July 11, 2010

3 defining me !!

Thanks NIPUN for another tag :)

here it goes :)

* 3 Famous Names of Mine:

Deepa
Dips
deepiii (rather its not famous it was given by one of my best friend)

* 3 Things that Scare Me:

falling again for someone and got hurt :(
Rejection :(
Ghosts and all their relatives like vampires n all :P


* 3 Things that make me Smile:
roses (i love flowers)
being with someone i like(family, friends...)
my favorite music :)


* 3 Things that I Love:
ma lappy +net conn
My virtual world
rain... (well i love almost everything around me :) )


* 3 Things that I Hate:
fake attitude
Arrogance
someone trying to impress me (i wonder if i sud go n ask don’t try hard i m already impressed :P )


* 3 Things I don’t understand:
the cast system in India
why people cheat
My mood :P


* 3 Things I’m doing right now:
trying to manage ma hairs :P
thinking about the next three so writing this post
listening to mom advice on phn not to expose myself to rain as i get cold very soon :D


* 3 Things I can’t do:
Hurt my parents for anything or even for anyone :)
Can’t do buttering :P
just move with the flow rather i love to change things acc to my wish :)


* 3 Things I think you should listen to:
my sweet voice :P
your heart (as my blog title says )
A R Rahman (he is legend )


* 3 Shows I watched as a Kid:
small wonder ( i still rem the tune sheee iss smalllll wonder) :P
shaktimaan
tom jerry( i still watch it) :P


* 3 Things I want in a Relationship:

LOVE
TRUST
COMPATIBILITY

* 3 Things of the Opposite Sex that appeal to me:

height
maturity
confidence

* 3 Favorite Fictitious Characters:
Harry Potter
my dream boy :P
aladin :D

* 3 of my Favorite Hobbies:

painting (i love playing with colours on paper )
shopping (i love it)
watching cricket (only 20-20 )


* 3 Beverages I drink regularly:
bed tea :P
water (anytime )
cold coffee with some vanilla n choco ice creams :)


* 3 Things I like about myself:

my honesty
positive attitude
my love for parents and family


* 3 Things I hate about myself:
short tempered !!
my emotions !!
my wait for someone when i know he won't come back !!


* 3 Things I’m wearing right now:

few baby clips :P
short-skirt :D
striped t-shirt :D

* 2 Truths and a Lie:

i love all my friends :)
i love appreciating as well helping others !!
i am the best :P

three friends i pass this tag to :
Rahil
simple man
Sourav

so friends keep smiling :)
keep rocking :)


Tuesday, July 6, 2010

hmm its me :)

Firstly, NETHRA Thanks for the tag :)


(so here's the tag : to list at least ten things you have ever wanted or done which your gender is not supposed to. )

and here it goes :

** I love shopping but I am an extremely fast shopper, just hate spending hours together in malls for nothing!!



** I loved to bunk the classes in ma college days and so always end up as least attendance and paying fine from ma pocket money :(



** I hate sharing personal things with others like most girls do !!



** I think cooking is a waste of time when you do have so many options like ordering the food from outside!!



** At my home my only companion is my cousin bro for cricket as di's are much interested in ekta kapoor stuff :P



** I am extremely uncomfortable with high heels or any kind of make-ups!!



** I would prefer reading books, roaming around, painting, sleeping, teasing people, pulling legs, than visiting parlors!!



** I hardly care for dark circles around eyes, pimples and so on as I love late night studies, chatting :D!!



** I don't hate liars !! ( strange.. but true rather I enjoy their excuses made to escape from something they should not have done!! )

** I don't get angry if someone forgets my b'day rather I call them and remind to wish me for the same :)










I love to tag :

Madhu

Rahil

Bibhash

Dr. chandana

Urvashi

Nitwit

Nipun Mittal

keep rocking !!

keep smiling :) :)




listen to ur heart....